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11d ago
inDropped $180 on a Sam Villa blow dryer and it cut my finish time in half
Cut my finish time in half too, worth every penny.
17d ago
inSkeptical about that 8 lb knee kicker for stairs, ate my words after 3 jobs
Is 8 lbs really worth switching for?
18d ago
inRant: everyone on here says build raised beds first, but my clay yard needed the opposite
Clay isn't the same everywhere and that's the part people skip. Tulsa clay is heavy but it still drains, just slow, so raised beds dry out fast on top of it. My cousin in west Tennessee has that black gumbo stuff that turns into a brick and stays wet all spring, and raised beds saved her garden because the roots never sat in water. So saying clay soil means skip the beds only works if your clay drains at all. If water sits in a hole for two days after a rain, raised beds are not the problem, drainage is. You did the right thing for your yard, just don't want folks with a different clay reading this and ripping out beds they actually need.
18d ago
inAm I the only one who believed I was a good listener until my friend called me out at a diner?
What helped me was giving myself a rule: no advice unless they ask for it. Sounds dumb but it works. Now when someone vents to me I just say stuff like "that sucks" or "tell me more about that part" and it keeps me from jumping in with fixes. The hard part is sitting with the silence when they pause, because that's when I want to fill the gap with solutions. I also started asking "do you want ideas or do you just need to get it out?" at the start, and people seem to like that. It takes practice but you catch yourself faster each time.