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2d ago
inI stopped clapping when the plane lands and my sister called me cold for it
Ha, same here, I just sit there while everyone around me claps for the pilot doing his job.
9d ago
inJust realized writing down my grandmother's tamale recipe beat any photo I have of her
The "walked me through the lard to broth ratio" part really got me because that's exactly the kind of thing that never makes it into a written recipe, it only lives in someone's hands and memory. I used to roll my eyes at my mom for scribbling notes on index cards while her aunts talked in the kitchen, I thought it was a waste of time when I could just look stuff up online. Then my uncle passed and nobody could remember how he did his chile colorado, and all those food blogs with their perfect photos were useless because none of them tasted like his. Now I get it, the notes are not really about the food, they're about keeping the person around in some small way. I keep a little notebook now too and I bug every older relative I can for their recipes before it's too late.
9d ago
inThe feed showed me my own funeral for 6 straight days in Denver
Muting the name in my settings finally stopped the death parade.