Finally picked the quiet job over the big money one. Here's what happened.
I had to choose between a sales role that paid $85k plus commission but had me working 50+ hours a week, and a receptionist gig at a small dental office in Portland for $38k flat. I went with the lower paying one because I craved a normal sleep schedule and weekends off. After 6 months, I'm way less stressed and I actually have time to cook dinner and see friends. Has anyone else made a similar trade off and felt like it was worth it?
You mentioned Portland, I'm curious what the cost of living situation looks like for you now. Because $38k in that city feels tight, even for a single person. Did you have to make any big lifestyle changes like downgrading your apartment or getting a roommate to make the math work? I just wonder how long the peace of mind lasts when money gets really tight, especially if an unexpected car repair or medical bill comes up.
Man that's the thing nobody talks about when they say you should just take a lower paying job for your mental health. A single medical bill or a blown transmission can wipe out all that peace real quick.
Been there with the transmission thing. That's why I tell people to build up a 3 month emergency fund before making the jump, even if it means waiting an extra year. Peace of mind only works if you have a buffer for the real world hitting you.