Ugh, I totally get being annoyed, but I see it the complete opposite way! Like @brian741 said, being the go-to person means they trust you to know your stuff. I actually love when family asks for help, even on a rushed buy. It's a chance to hang out, fix a problem together, and maybe teach them what to look for next time. I helped my niece fix a laptop fan last month and now she's curious about building her own. Turning their mistake into a learning moment feels way better than just being mad about it.

Ugh, that's rough! My street had a potluck last year and only a few people came. It seems like folks are either too busy or they don't see the point. But a safety meeting had a big crowd after some cars were damaged. What kind of event did you have?

You said it killed the vibe, but mixing in a true crime podcast can actually make game night more interesting. That edge you felt might have added some real tension to the games, which isn't always a bad thing. Family time doesn't always need to be lighthearted to be meaningful. Your cousin was trying to share something they care about, and that's part of bonding. Sometimes stepping out of the comfort zone creates the best memories. Give it another shot before you switch back to just happy topics.